The Story Behind The Book
Once upon a time, there was a nice family–a dad, a mom and four teenage daughters. They lived in the suburbs of Portland, Oregon. Everything was just fine and dandy.
Then, one day, they decided to sell everything and move to Mexico. The daughters were just about to enter their freshman, junior and senior years of high school and the oldest was a senior in college.
Okay, there were some other things that happened, but that’s how the story starts.
Ultimately, the family figured out how to “do school” in a whole new way. It wasn’t always easy. There were some bumps in the road, to be sure. But, well, things are turning out just fine and dandy.
Daughter #1 spent her junior year in high school on a year-long exchange in Chile, returned to Oregon and spent her senior year taking classes in both her high school and the local community college while working at a health clinic. She discovered her passion for public health, entered university at 18 as a junior, graduated with honors and a BS at 19, traveled for several months in Latin America, moved to New York City, got a job as a health educator, and earned her (employer-financed) master’s in urban health while working full-time as a program manager in a clinic in Harlem. These days, she’s passionate about her work as the program director of an award-winning harm reduction nonprofit in Washington Heights. She is 24.
Daughter #2 spent her junior year in high school on a year-long exchange in Brazil, returned to Oregon and graduated the summer before her senior year. She spent a year in Mexico with the family while taking online courses, spent a summer in Germany studying, went to Canada for a semester at a university, spent a semester at a university in Argentina, graduated from an Oregon university with a make-your-own major in foreign languages, linguistics and communications. She has worked as a teacher for a nonprofit that offers foreign language instruction to preschoolers, finished an internship at the Mexican consulate. She juggled two Manhattan internships–one at a top Latino ad agency, and the other at MTV’s international division–then decided she’d had enough of the hustle-bustle life in New York and moved to Buenos Aires, where she worked as the marketing director for an American-owned language-learning company and taught English to a range of professionals. Now, she is happily teaching a classroom of first graders at a school in Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates. She’s 23.
Daughter #3 spent her junior year in high school on a year-long exchange in Brazil, and since her parents had moved to Mexico while she was gone, she didn’t return to Oregon. Instead, she moved to Argentina with her parents and younger sister, took online courses to finish high school and gain college credits, attended university in Argentina (both English and Spanish courses) alongside students from top US universities (they were paying five times the price for the same class), worked with an American writer to sharpen her essay skills, studied with a Canadian history professor to gain an understanding of global shifts in the past and the present, and entered a university in Canada as a junior majoring in sociology and Spanish. She was a TA in Spanish and an RA in the international dorm. Prior to graduation, she was offered a job as a multilingual events coordinator for Norwegian Cruise Lines. After a year and half of cruising in the Mediterranean, along the South American coastline and making a couple of trans-Atlantic crossings, she has decided to pursue her interests on land. The world is full of possibilities, and she’s taking some time to choose her next move. She’s 21.
Daughter #4 never went to high school in the US. She spent a year with her family in Mexico, where she was the only foreigner in her private, all-Spanish high school. She was selected as the spring princess of her class and made the cover of all the newspapers. Then she moved to Argentina with her family and entered an international high school. She felt she needed more instruction in Spanish, so she enrolled in an intensive Spanish course at a local university alongside American students from top colleges. She supplemented her Spanish courses by studying with private tutors from around the world. Then she spent a summer in Oregon taking college courses. Finished with high school and already packing a year of college credits, she is studied for a year at an American university in Buenos Aires. She got a sweet scholarship/grant offer at a small liberal arts university in upstate New York, was offered a TA position immediately, spent a summer doing independent research in Argentina, and graduated with a BS. She’s currently working in Buenos Aires as the assistant recruiter for a global headhunting firm specializing in creative directors. She’s 20.
None of them ever submitted an SAT score. They didn’t take a single AP or IB course, skipped the angst of the college admissions process, and glided into the jobs they wanted based on experience and enthusiasm rather than impressive diplomas or connections.
The Frosts were intrigued by the challenge of finding ways to get a good education if you’re not on the traditional track. They learned a lot and got interested in ways to give kids a premium, multilingual, globally relevant education.
And so, Maya began to write a book about their experience in order to share all of the strategies, shortcuts, loopholes and other surprises they’d discovered along the way.
The book is called The New Global Student: Skip the SAT, Save Thousands On Tuition, and Get A Truly International Education.
If you’re looking for ways to completely avoid the craziness of the college application process–and the years of preparation before your child even gets to university–you won’t want to miss this book!
Whether you stay where you are, send your child abroad while in high school, take a year off to travel with the family, or sell it all and move abroad permanently, you’ll find immensely valuable information in this book that will save you a tremendous amount of money, time, and frustration.
Better yet–you’ll give your kids an outrageously relevant education that blasts them ahead of their peers in a uniquely off-the-charts way.
Without mortgaging the house. Without loans. And–if you choose–without even living in the United States.
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This is exactly what I’ve been thinking; I know this is true and travel is the best education. We are thinking of homeschooling throughout the Caribbean on a sailboat! Crazy as it sounds, we get more into this idea every day. I linked to you by an article about a family who did exactly what we’re thinking of doing, I will definitely be buying your book. When is it due out? I would love to talk to that family. I have so much to learn and look forward to with my kids, your website was just what I needed to read.
Julia A.
Hi Julia,
You’re not crazy at all! LOTS of people are finding exciting new ways to live and educate their kids! The Lesher family’s story will be in my book. Sorry–it won’t be published until spring of 2009, but watch this space for helpful hints and links in the coming months!
Best,
Maya
Hello Maya. I was thrilled to stumble onto your website, as you have managed to pull off a variation of something I have had in mind for my daughter for years (she’s 13). I have family in Rosario, Argentina, that just loves her to pieces. I have been trying to formulate a strategy that makes sense for educating my daughter both here in the US and in Argentina. Can’t wait until your book comes out. Any thoughts you have are welcome. Godspeed to you.
Hi Maya, We loved reading your story about the girls and what they are up to now. The farm looks interesting and will keep you busy and young!
Chickens, a cow, a couple of horses, a goat or two, some sheep and you are all set.
We will have to have a work visit someday where we can help on the farm….me being raised on dairy ranch, I appreciate so much the opportunity of being raised that way. Farm life is a lot of work and you guys are amazing for taking this on….I applaud you and enjoy hearing all about it.
Love the blog! XOXO Leyla
After four and half years of homeschooling on a sailboat while traveling through the North Atlantic, Caribbean, and Mediterannean I am still raring to go but my kids, 10 and 12, have had enough. They want to be “normal.” We are currently in Mexico and the girls are going to a bi-lingual school here. They’ve agreed to another year here but at that point are determined to go back “home.” How do I convince them that other options might be better? I just discovered your book and love the way it has opened up my mind to other options and methods for the whole college application process. At this point, I’m just trying to figure out how to play it with the girls so they keep their minds open too.
Hi Christy,
Well, it’s not about convincing them that other options are better than going “home”–it’s more about giving them a chance to see what “home” feels like after being away for so long! We made sure our girls had time in the U.S. after living abroad with the family–and that’s when they really learned how different their ideas/stories/experiences are than those of their peers. The whole Third Culture Kid thing doesn’t really happen until kids go “back” and see how it feels. I think it’s quite reasonable that they have agreed to another year in a bilingual school in Mexico, and it seems fair that you would honor that by giving them a year back in the U.S. if that’s what they want at that point. No promises of extending it: that’s key. The agreement should be to go for a year. They might love it, they might hate it–but either way, they may be up for another stint abroad after that! As your girls get older, it’s really important to listen to what they want BUT it’s also important to realize that what they think they want might not be what’s waiting for them back in the States. It’s a lot easier if they come to this conclusion themselves!
Hugs,
Maya
I’m going into my senior year, and I plan on graduating early in January. However, I really would like to study abroad… if not in my senior year, then in my college years. However, my parents think it’s too much money… we’re slightly poor, you see. I don’t really know what to do. Can you point me in the right way?
-Z
Hi Z–
Go to your local library and check out my book, The New Global Student. Then, show it to your parents
and encourage them to at least read chapters five and six.
Then, see if your community has a local chapter of the Rotary Club–they offer the best and most affordable
exchange programs for students who are under the age of 19 when they leave. Many clubs offer scholarships
and the total cost for an entire year abroad (including airfare, fees, visa) is often under $2,000 even for those who
do NOT get any special financial assistance.
Don’t be afraid to use a Rotary Exchange as a gap year, and keep in mind that the longer you stay (one year vs. two months, for example)
the more economical it is–it’s the same air fare, after all, and that’s the most expensive part. Staying longer will give you language fluency and cultural immersion rather than simply an interesting extended field trip that’s informative but not exactly transformational.
Going abroad during college is certainly an option as well but it will be FAR more expensive, especially if you go through a college program! There’s a chapter
in the book about how to do it for a fraction of the cost (and still get full credit). Read that, too–and show it to your parents!
Good luck–and keep me posted!
We are a homeschooling family who enjoys hosting exchange students. We have had to short-term French students, and are currently hosting our second full-year German student! We are helping other people’s children gain global experience while exposing our own children to international teenagers… a win-win situation for all! We did travel to Germany to visit our first exchange student, and loved it… our children are young now (9 and 7), but perhaps in 8-10 years they will do their own exchanges. I will look for your book; I’m sure it will make an excellent addition to our home library!
Hi Michelle,
Thanks for writing! Yes, we also hosted many exchange students over the years, beginning when our children were infants and toddlers! Having them grow up in a household in which other languages were heard, different kinds of food were prepared and everyone shared stories of their childhood and culture was a fantastic learning experience for everyone. Cheers to you for bringing exchange students into your home–both for them and for your own kids! I do hope you get a chance to read my book–I think you’ll appreciate the stories of other families doing things differently.
All I can say is, Thank You! Last summer, I picked up your book at a local store and immediately bought it. I read it, my mom read it, and we read it again. Seeing all the good advice and real life experience in your book gave me the courage to apply to Rotary Youth Exchange, and here I am waiting to find out my country! I had been worried about participating after graduation, but the stories from students who took a gap year for RYE reassured me and helped me realize I was doing exactly what I needed to. I am so glad you wrote a book that so advocates travel and global education. I can honestly say that your book has helped me follow my dreams. So thank you!
Hi Taylor,
Wow–I’m delighted to hear from you and thrilled that the book inspired you to go on your own global adventure! Please let me know where you’re headed and keep me posted on how things are going. I’m so excited for you!